One of those great ones

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This post is mad ironic, btw.

I bothers me that these programs were incapable of showing the hardships of having a child too young. The concept of the shows were honestly great and very realistic, one thing that really caught my eye were the diverse group of couples that were on the programs. Money proved to be the root of all evil unfortunately, once the public was aware that the documented parents were receiving money the sympathy was no longer shared with it’s viewers and it may have possibly sparked teenagers having children to get 15 min. of fame. It’s a shame that a show so dramatic, could not only fail to deter but encourage teen pregnancy for some shallow teens. Overall it wasn’t MTV’s fault, it isn’t our generations fault, but it was fame’s fault and the desperate pursuit of it.

When I first heard about the Saints Bounty Scandal I thought a big time gambler was paying them money to injure key players from the opposition. But when I found out it was a in house thing, that’s when I thought that the NFL should have just stayed out. They didn’t do anything other teams aren’t doing and they had all their hits within the confines of NFL rules. I know the intentions were mean but at the end of the day THAT’S FOOTBALL, the NFL has taken so much away from defenses already, adding this to this list really bothers me. You can’t continually stack the rules in favor of the offense because it’s not entertaining seeing offenses face no resistance in scoring even if they put up a lot of points. I’ll forever love football but they just have to let the chips fall where they may in this situation.

I kind of don’t feel it’s a crime when a woman or teacher has sex with a high school student and even a middle school student is really up for grabs depending on the situation. Recently in Cincinnati a teacher/Bengals cheerleader was caught having an affair with a high school student. Don’t get me wrong she should be ashamed of herself, she should punish herself for doing something so appalling. But in my opinion unless the guy later reported after getting caught (because the guys seem to never call the police or tell their parents on these women) that he felt sexually abused I don’t think it’s a crime. Please don’t get my tolerant view confused with actually condoning these sexual acts with what is Ideally a male child which is repulsive, but understand how the male ego and sexual reproductive system works. In terms of the ego that kid is WINNING! Not only is he having sex with a teacher which is kind of a dream for many guys growing up, but he’s having sex with an NFL cheerleader, a high school cheerleader is an accomplishment in itself but an NFL CHEERLEADER this is a hook up of epic proportions. Plus! When a guy has sex with a woman he has to be aroused unless it’s rape which would no longer make it sex. Am I wrong lol?

So Monday there was some trend on twitter celebrating flat bellies, and as expected the trend caught a lot of flack for not being sensitive to overweight people as well as people without flat stomachs and I remember person tweeting “and people wonder why people starve themselves”. To come to think of it unless you did some serious scrolling I didn’t see any links for pictures of someones flat belly. A majority of this country’s children, teens, and adults are classified as “overweight” I think it’s a testament to the minority’s discipline (and good genes) that they should be able to flaunt there body that they worked on. It dawned on me that people weren’t complaining because they felt as though they were being attacked, belittled, or oppressed but because they were being slightly challenged. I’m not saying everyone should be slim, I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be comfortable in your own skin. But I am saying that there is a right and wrong and you justifying being on the wrong end of the spectrum for something that is within your control isn’t right.

I never got why fathers promote their sons having sex but actively try to protect their daughters from having sex. That’s the worst double standard of all time, and the worst part about it is that the harder a father tries to prevent his daughter from having sex the more frequently she may have it. I don’t have any statistical data to back this up because people typically don’t care to know about this information, however I know a lot of people and have seen this play out many times to be true. The worst part is that the daughter will have sex behind various building, bathrooms, underneath bleachers but au contraire these dads are handing sons condoms, and on some occasions giving them rides to the girls house. That’s not right for a couple of reasons other than those previously mentioned. 1. You’re not respecting someone else’s daughter, and karma does come around. You may not have a daughter, or if you do she may be young but that time will come around for her, and I don’t think you’ll appreciate it if someone saw your daughter or your son’s daughter as just something do to or get experience on. Most importantly at number 2. It devalues sex for the son, you preached to your daughter about how sacred her body is and how she should wait until she is married, but what about your son’s body, is his body not sacred? I don’t know guys maybe it’s my values speaking, opinions?

If you’re a virgin, please stay a virgin. Have you ever heard of the lay’s ad that says “You can’t just have one” sex is similar to that. You can’t just have it one time, because as you may have heard that’s not the best time you’ll ever have so you’ll have to do it again to see what the hype is all about and once that happens it’s goes downhill from there, you’ll be having sex as much as possible. I’m telling you though, DON’T DO IT. It’s not worth it, the pleasures of sex aren’t worth the emotions that come with it. Have you ever seen a girl go back to a guy that beat her, it isn’t because he looks like an international supermodel it’s because they had sex, she liked it and fell in love or something kind of like it. Have you ever seen a guy ruin his life over some vagina? It’s a horrible thing to see, it happens to girls as well. I’m telling ever virgin out there wait, because if you’re old enough to read this and still be a virgin you may as well wait because the road to marriage is near it may be 5, 10, maybe 12 years from now. But being able to tell someone you were there first, last and only is a wonderful remarkable feeling, something billions of people around this world can’t say. So I tell you WAIT! It’s worth it.